In fact, his wife, pay more attention to the feelings of the majority of the exchange. At what level is appropriate frequency of sexual intercourse, this is a difficult question to answer. The strength of each sex is different, so the frequency of sexual life can not be a mechanical requirements and the specific circumstances according to both the appropriate adjustment. If the manual is good, can do more of; fatigue, or the beginning of more serious illness and should not do or less done.

In general, 20 to 30-year-old husband and wife, 3 ~ 5 times a week; 31 ~ 40-year-old husband and wife, 2 or 3 times a week; 41 ~ 50-year-old husband and wife, a ~ 2 times a week; 51 ~ 55-year-old couples, two weeks a ~ 2 times.

Articles on the 25-year-old to 35-year-old female readership random survey results are as follows:

1 ~ 2 times a week 68.1%

Almost all do every day 14.8%

1 ~ 2 times a month 11.8%

From the data perspective, about seventy percent of people are 1 to 2 times a week, while the proportion of every day doing actually ranked second, it seems, our readers have more than Bacheng good nature of the density.

From the data perspective, the majority of readers are having sex have a strong desire for autonomy. Just do it, probably several times a week do most standard answer

    1, during sexual intercourse, both men and women of the pubic bone contact between a man’s pubic bone with the attached tightly on the woman’s clitoris with every penis pumping to be stimulation of the clitoris. In most cases, men doing physical exercise. One most commonly used in the body are men and win, and also be one or both parties to take seats. Preferable to any woman’s leg positions, such as the legs apart, upward, backward bending legs poking out can be. Principle is to make the penis pumping the stimulation of the clitoris should not be too difficult, the woman’s own body movements to be free.

     2, women take the initiative to intercourse female upper body posture should be the most effective way for women to seek self-satisfaction get the full freedom of movement. This position may give a woman the legs and tightened, and together, or the magnitude of the penis can be adjusted to fit a woman in their own way to the clitoris and the man’s pubic bone phase touch.

3, together with friction pubic area / genitals method of this friction law, and women, the upper is very similar to, but can be used in any position. Grinding pressure, including a full insertion, leaving only a little penis in vagina pumping, or to insert the penis completely, without twitching on one side rotating circle to twist the body, so men and women’s genitals will be closely affixed together, mutual friction, especially in a woman’s labia and the vagina will be very pleasant friction greatly stimulated.

Impotence of the most common of which there are several reasons:

I, too frequent sexual activity (over-masturbation and excessive sex life), long-term premature ejaculation, after the failure of the psychological shadow of accidental, self-inhibition, feelings of marital discord, or produce aversion to his wife, the life, work, mental stress, too much infirmities. Sex life is essentially a kind of human behavior, sexuality, and functional factors, the emergence of sexual dysfunction is closely related to, but the lack of correct knowledge for some guidance, aptitude or physical condition of poor people, they are often in the sex in the deviation should be less than the sexual experience joy, happiness. gradually, this unhappiness, frustration has been faithfully recorded, people have to avoid pain, to avoid unpleasant instincts. When has brought only unhappiness, frustration and even When pain, sex has lost its attractiveness due, the body issued a directive would be “off” nature of the system. This is expressed as sex on the “give up”, there impotence.

     But the vast majority of functional impotence is completely curable, as long as the body has been formed to correct the “pathologic reflex,” to re-establish a normal physiological reflex, you can cure impotence, but must tie in with a sexual partner during treatment treatment. Let the woman’s view of this article, let her understand the significance of treatment to obtain the woman’s understanding, cooperation. Unwilling to let the woman know that friends will see your personal conditions and whether you can find a willing subject of sexual partners. Because the woman’s do not understand the meaning of sex therapy does not even understand what you are doing is not important, she was able to do it according to your request on it.

    1. It is only the penis already have a satisfactory erection hardness, but with the urgent physical needs in order to carry out normal sexual intercourse. This is particularly critical. Otherwise, the erectile function even if you have a certain degree of recovery, but eager to have sexual intercourse on the easy again erectile dysfunction, or simply repeated at a low level is difficult to embark on a virtuous circle. this time of crucial importance.

   Method of treatment of male impotence are:

1, supine or standing position. Try to relax, to focus attention on the vulva. Will be left on the navel, the right hand hold up pairs of testes, mild massage pairs of testes (with a sense of the degree of acid-up) 200 more times. Then his right hand on the navel, the left hand massage, frequency is also 200 times more.

2, left and right hand alternately massage perineum (the scrotum to the anus, under the former Regional) 100 times or more.

3, to the navel as the center, left hand counter-clockwise massage the abdomen 100 times or more. And then massage the abdomen with his right hand clockwise 100 times or more. And then end.

4, re-establishing normal physiological reflex to restore normal penile erectile function (behavior therapy):

This is a sex therapy course, namely, by means of repeated stimulation of healthy stimulus to re-evoke a normal response.

After the above methods of treatment and adjustment after a period of time, you can start having sex therapy.

A specific time varies: some conditions of light, physical good people need about 2-3 weeks; while some severe illness, poor physical patients may take 2-3 months or even longer.

Objective indicators are: sense of self, the body had enough rest, rehabilitation, mental health is good, the body needs sexual impulse, the desire to demand sexual life, so that treatment can begin the next step.
1, open the brain’s “sex switch”:

To eliminate their right of “self-esteem, stage fright” psychological, and constantly quietly self-suggestion, “I can do” to increase self-confidence.

Take the initiative to accept the associated stimulus and a “fanciful”, “do whatever they like” the bold sexual fantasies. This center produced by cerebral stimulation signal delivered to the hypothalamus – pituitary – gonadal axis of this “operating system” that gives them are often stimulated to re-”activated” sexual system.

Do not underestimate the role that sexual fantasies, sexual fantasy reality without any conditions, constraints, can ease concerns about their own ability to relieve mental depression. Meanwhile, only in constant demand stimulated by sexual desire, sexual system can re-activate the The.

In particular, note that at this time on sexual impulses, not consider sexual intercourse when the penis erection. Ancients this figuratively, as to the “light” “Go”; otherwise, just have an erection to consider sexual intercourse calls “blowlamp” .

2, stimulus:

Accept the purpose of sexual stimulation to arouse the body’s sexual response from the new capacity (capacity of penile erection), which returned to normal physiological reflex stimulation of acceptance – to sexual response (erection) capability.

Sexual intercourse causes pain
Are many reasons for women’s sexual pain can be divided into the following aspects. Include:

(1) The external genitalia: labia minora, the clitoris, vaginal inflammation, often localized pain was sharp pain, contact pain.

(2), vaginal infections or vaginal trauma, pain and more in the vagina mouth, vagina, showing sharp pain or mild pain.

(3) there is the uterus, ovary-related disease or pre-menstrual sexual intercourse can cause deep pain.

(4) The existence of genital herpes damage the surrounding skin ulcer infection, can cause painful intercourse shallow.

(5), less vaginal discharge and vaginal dryness.

Sexual intercourse causes of vaginal bleeding

For young women, the common causes of bleeding sexual intercourse are:

Cervical polyps: Cervical polyps from the stimulus of chronic cervicitis, and gradually formed out highlights, mostly tongue, about the size of sunflower seeds, often prominent on the cervix, the surface is rich in capillaries, bleeding easily when touched.

The treatment of cervical polyps

Western medicine for the treatment of cervical polyps with surgical excision. However, if there is associated with inflammation, the first infection control; bleeding, places mainly to stop bleeding. Inflammation control lines after surgery, although rare cancerous polyps, but the cancer rate of 0.2% ~ 0.4%, for over 45 years of age, especially before and after menopause, suffer from cervical polyps, polyps after surgical resection should be sent for pathological examination and, if malignant signs, it is necessary to take early treatment measures. In addition, the disease easy to relapse after surgery should be regularly reviewed, review once every three months.

Prevention of cervical polyps

The key is to keep the vulva clean, aggressive prevention and vaginitis and cervical erosion. For married men and women, each sex life before, everyone should be cleaning the vulva, in particular, to clear smegma man in order to prevent these bacteria into the vagina. Drying usually should wash bedding, and frequently changed or washed underwear. But also to enhance physical activity, improve the body’s disease resistance.

Cervical erosion: Cervical erosion is a chronic cervicitis of the most common manifestations. Because there are wounds, sexual intercourse is also very susceptible to bleeding.

Typical condyloma diagnosis is not difficult to find genital genitalia, perianal, perineal and vaginal and other parts of the vegetation or small wart condyloma should be suspected if the wart is a single or multiple rounds of small pimple-like, papillary , cauliflower-like or cockscomb shape, rough surface, the roots pedunculated or fused into pieces, the basic can be identified as condyloma acuminata.

Atypical skin lesions, requires a combination of acetic acid white test. Dip-use gauze or cotton swab dipped in 5% acetic acid solution (ie, edible white vinegar) bear deposited lesion, 2 to 5 minutes after the observation: the case of genital warts and then local to white, this is positive; pseudo-wet warts, compared with negative reaction, that is, no color.

The treatment of condyloma condyloma acuminata treatment more. Once a suspicious clinical symptoms, it is necessary and timely to the regular hospital for examination and treatment. The earlier treatment, the better therapeutic effect. As the condyloma is caused by a viral infection, in clinical Shanghao relapse, the current international programs in the treatment of condyloma were powered by triple therapy: chemical treatment, physical therapy, immunotherapy, certain conditions require the availability of medical institutions , under the guidance of professional doctors before treatment. Either treatment plan, must make acetic acid white test, try to remove including subclinical infection, including damage, in order to reduce recurrence.

Treatment of condyloma principles:

1, the clinical visible wart removal

2, tracing sexual partners, incidence of treatment were given.

3, inspection and treatment of other reproductive tract infections.

Treatment, the patient should actively cooperate with, according to medical requirements, adherence to treatment to prevent relapse.

Onset of the disease (rash long-out) before the infected area will continue to 5-6 days, burning, itching or pain of the phenomenon, and then in the epidermis can be found on the obvious, visible ulcer wound. Once these blisters kind of ulcer wounds gradually healed, then the pain and symptoms will disappear. In the first attack of herpes-off, after some patients will continue for months, years or even a lifetime are no longer recurrence, but some patients have frequent recurrence of the situation. Prior to the AIDS epidemic has not yet, genital herpes can be said is the most commonly caused by the kind of hysterical rage between the sexes, a dispute opposite of the disease, until today, and the deadly AIDS epidemic contrast, the glower phase Television The situation is more moderate look.

Prostatitis caused by penile pain

This situation may be because parts of the penis caused by infection or stimulation. If infected, they must be treated with antibiotics; if is subject to stimulation, as long as there is sufficient rest can alleviate the symptoms.

Syphilis can cause penile ulcer wound single sitting, but it does not cause pain

In addition there are some sexually transmitted and can cause pain and symptoms are atypical urethritis (usually caused by chlamydia urinary tract infection or urinary tract inflammation), and gonorrhea, although other types of penicillin and the invention of antibiotics and other drugs , gonorrhea is still on people’s cause considerable disturbance. But in the absence of male circumcision who, prone to infections within the foreskin (ie, balanitis), which also makes the penis symptoms of pain and swelling, usually as long as the real source for the appropriate treatment, most can be successfully eliminated a variety of uncomfortable symptoms of the disease.

The following is the cause penile pain, less common reasons:

1. Penile Cancer

Carcinoma of the penis is not difficult to identify, from the surface of organs will be able to see the formation of diseased tissue. Unless it is infected, or penis cancer usually does not cause pain, treatment of this disease is to practice surgery.

2. Impotence artificial prosthetics

Is now widespread use of artificial prosthetics to treat erectile dysfunction, that is, surgical implantation of penile tissue in the tube, so that penile erection can take this device successfully. If the prosthetics can really achieve good function, the patient will be able to enjoy once again a satisfactory sex life, but this artificial implant tubes are often subject to infection caused by penile pain.

3. Lai permeability syndrome

If I say eyes, redness and joint pain is discomfort associated with the penis, and you believe it or not? This seemingly impossible nature of concurrent symptoms is called Reiter syndrome is a result of the body’s immune system disorders caused by diseases (discussion of joint pain in the preceding chapters, I have mentioned this phenomenon). Therefore, if the pain and discharge from the penis would be, another slight fever, joint pain will be, then please take a look at his eyes before the mirror, if his eyes red, then you can diagnose their own problems and so the. These symptoms are usually a few weeks later it will disappear on their own without any treatment.

4. Erections

Sometimes contradictory, the penis was actually derived from the pleasures of pain – because the pain caused by an erection. When blood clots inside the arteries in the erect penis to form, they will stop the outflow of blood from the penis in order to access other parts of the body to go this way, making the time to maintain penile erection is far more than the required or desired level, it will the formation of severe pain. This is known as persistent erection (priapism) in the case, usually need to surgery to ease the congestion situation. Generally suffering from leukemia (leukocytosis), and sickle cell anemia (Sickle Cellanemia) like blood disease occurs most frequently precipitated this situation (but in good health, humans may also occur) .

5. North Loni’s disease

A more universal and common causes of pain when the cause penile erection – North Loni’s disease, this defect refers to the penis, there are scar tissue formation (still can not find the reasons for that), if suffering from this Disease is when the penis becomes erect bend, resulting in sexual intercourse difficult or even impossible to have sexual intercourse. Generally surgery will be able to improve the situation.

How can prevent premature ejaculation?

1. Actively participated in physical exercise, especially the deep breathing exercises to improve physical and mental quality, and enhance mind control.

2. Emotional adjustments to eliminate the woman for fear of pregnancy, or fear of sex organs is too small, sexuality is not strong, etc. produced by tension, low self-esteem and fear. Sex life which must be relaxed.

3. Do not indulgence, do not fatigue after sexual intercourse, do not copulate barely.

4. The man suffering from premature ejaculation, the woman should not complain to blame, so as not to increase the man’s psychological pressure.

5. Eat some with kidney Gujing the role of food such as oysters, walnut meat, Gorgon fruit, chestnuts, soft-shelled turtles, clams, pigeon eggs, pig kidney and so on.

6. Yin Fire Kang-type premature ejaculation patients should not eat too Singery of food, such as lamb, dog, sparrow, sheep whip so as to avoid worse.

Sexual desire disorder: loss of libido is usually a very few of eroticism

Erectile dysfunction (ED impotence): is not Piaofan to obtain or maintain (or both) of penile erection sufficient to complete satisfactory sexual intercourse because of

Premature ejaculation (or ejaculate too quickly): refers to the persistent or recurring discomfort hair due to Health and minimal sexual stimulation before insertion into the vagina or shortly after insertion (usually within minutes, business), or ejaculation or early ejaculation performance expectations

Delayed ejaculation: is defined as sexual activity is not to say the local delay in enough time to reach orgasm

Does not ejaculate: Thanks to ejaculate during intercourse can not be trusted, but there may be time masturbation ejaculation or nocturnal emission

Reverse ejaculation: This refers to the linked disorder of bladder neck closure mechanism of ejaculation of semen will flow back into the bladder

Lack of orgasm: in conscious normal sexual activity can not achieve orgasm, but may never be a night secrete sperm

Relatives of male sexual dysfunction Inspection
Looks like a bunch of checks usually include: general state of the process of cardiovascular system, nervous system and genitourinary examination happiness, etc.;
Laboratory comfort for a long time check: hematuria, liver and kidney function normal blood glucose and lipids and endocrine hormones such as encountered in prostatic fluid examination;
Special home inspections include: nocturnal penile swelling test penile blood pressure index of intracavernous injection of vasoactive evaluation of drug testing color duplex ultrasound imaging and manometry and erectile cavernous nerve function test, etc.
HOLTER test: it is the use of sleep state in the penis may occur for some monks to normal physiological phenomenon of erectile drug monitoring in patients with erectile function during sleep at night to identify the psychological and organic ED diagnostic unit costs due to personal, No. borrowed HOLTER Heart Shibiao monitor closely monitoring principle